Love is never wrong---有爱就有美好

最近和迈克的姨妈聊天，我们谈论了爱的话题。姨妈80多岁了，人非常积极乐观，给她打电话，总是乐呵呵的，和她聊天会把你抑郁的心情一下开朗起来。那天给她打电话，我心里面非常烦恼，我向她求助，怎么才能高兴起来。她的一句话到现在我仍然记得非常清楚："如果你没有爱，你将一无所有。" 然后，让我打开-圣经，我们一起读了圣经关于爱的那部分。 Lately I talk to Maike's anut ,we talk about love.She is more than 80 years old and very out open woman.She is very possitive .It seems she is happy no matter when you call her,and she will light up your life even you are upsad.Something bothers me and upsad me that day ,so I decided make a call to aunty.She said something

impressed me ,till now I still remember :you have nothing if you do not have love!Then she tole me open Bible,we read together about love part.

和迈克认识的这几年，我学会了：爱永远没有错误，不管是否是你喜欢的人爱你。当有人向你表达爱意或者好感时，不管你是那么的讨厌哪个人，不管哪个人多么的丑，还是多么的不高兴，你要善意的拒绝，尽量把伤害降到最低。因为爱是无辜的，每个人都有追逐爱的权利。Since I know Maike ,he has been teaching me about love:Love is never

wrong,No matter if you like that peoson.When someone express his or her love to you,you should try your best to avoide hurting that person,even you hate him or her ,even he is so ugly and even you are crazy and so upsad.

Try not hurt the one who try to show you love ,because love is innocent and everyone has his or her right to love.

迈克经常给我讲世界上的三种爱：Agape ,philia and Eros.其中包括了父母子女，兄弟姐妹之间的爱，友爱和情爱。中国的文化使我们，很少对我们的父母，兄弟姐妹和好友说：我爱你！一直一来以为我爱你只是爱人之间的表达。但是对我身边的人，总是爱你难于表达，难于启口。There are three kind loves in the world from

Maike's understanding: Agape,philia and Eros ,they about family love ,friendship and love between lovers.China's culture lockes our mind ,so that we never tell our beloved ones :I love you.In my mind ,I belive from my bottom of heart "I love you" is only happen between lovers.We are so shy so that we never express our love to the people around us.

爸爸妈妈我爱你，Daddy mom I love you,

不仅只是因为你们给了我生命，not only because you give me life,

而是因为你给了我所有你们能给与的，but also because you give all you can give,

于是我健康的长大了。And now I grow up.

姐姐们我爱你们，Sisters ,I love you,

不仅是因为你是我的手足，Not only because you are my sisters and brother,

而是因为你们的给与，奉献，But also because your giving and devotion,

伴我一步步成长。 and follow me growing up.

迈克，我爱你， Maike ,I love you,

不仅只是因为你给了我爱情，Not only because you give me your love,

而是你给了我生活与智慧，But also you give me life and wise,

让我变得强大起来。and make me bigger and stronger.

布兰妮，我爱你， Splendi,I love you,

不仅是因为你是我的女儿，Not only because you are my daughter,

而是因为你燃亮了我的生活，But also you light up my life,

让我和你一起体验成长的快乐。And you and I together go through the happiness of growing.